We at HOUSTONZOMBIES.COM use the Zombie Apocalypse as a fun metaphor for the end of the world. This end could be the end of a relationship, the end of your job, the end of a long professional career or even the end of a physical life due to slipping in a bathtub.

The idea is to be prepared for any major change in your life; develop flexibility skills, knowledge and become fiscally and mentally resilient. The end of your world will require you to be flexible and tough, smart and collaborative, knowledgeable and industrious.

I have gone through some interesting “catastrophic” experiences myself, a flash flood in Kansas, where everything we owned was destroyed in 45 minutes and Hurricane Alex in Monterrey, Mexico. After Alex, my family and I had to live for 5 days with no water and no electricity. Both were dangerously sobering experiences that taught me a lot about myself and helped my family become very adaptable.

As Todd mentioned in a previous post, things become really simple in a survival situation. You don’t worry about unnecessary stuff. Your inner chatter quiets down and you live in the moment. Your mind is focused in the task at hand, be it finding food, collecting rain water to be able to flush a toilet, or figuring out how to wash your whole body in a very efficient and effective way with just one bucket of water, a bar of soap and a washcloth.

One thing that we learned was that we could adapt to almost any kind of living situation as long as we all stayed together. We helped each other and did not allow any whining. We completely accepted and embraced the new situation without asking why us, or why now. Every day we had a plan to execute and we did it. Execution of a well thought out plan is a great cure for anxiety. Every night we would sit at the candle lit kitchen table and review what we had done that day, as well as play cards and tell stories. It was a surprisingly engaging situation that made us become very close in so many levels.

Here are some thoughts and points of action that can help you in a non-life threatening, but ugly situation: a great loss, a divorce, the failure of a business, a disabling illness or a death of a close relative.

  • Accept and embrace your new situation. Don’t judge it or complain about it.
  • Learn as much as you can about what is happening.
  • Develop a vision of your needs and what can be accomplished in the immediate, short and mid term.
  • Develop a well thought out action plan.
  • Execute your plans and evaluate the results of your action plan frequently.
  • Have a support team.
  • Make sure that the people you are sharing this experience with are as motivated as you to make the most out of it or help you go through it.

In future posts, Todd and I will be sharing some ideas about living a more fulfilling life during the current state of events; as well as explore helpful knowledge to survive in style, the imminent Zombie Apocalypse.

Breathe and stay happy. You never know when you’ll take your last breath.

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